Have you ever wondered how you should respond to your children's angry feelings and behaviors?

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Have you ever wondered how you should respond to your children's angry feelings and behaviors? Here are some practical tips that can help your children manage their anger.
Learn to let certain things go.
Do your children get in trouble with you if they cross their arms or yell about how life isn't fair?    36    Children should have the right to express their anger, and it's not going to come out in a mature(成熟的) way because their brains aren't yet mature. This is hard even for adults sometimes!
Remember that their behavior is not a reflection of you.
Believing that your children's behavior is a symbol of how good or bad you are as a caregiver often makes you feel embarrassed and angry.    37    Instead, remind yourself that behavior communicates how a child feels under the surface. Kids who behave this way are not trying to torture(折磨) you; they're struggling emotionally ,and they need your help.
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Children with anger problems get lectures and consequences all day long.    39    If your children frequently hit others when they are angry and instead choose to hit a pillow, wait until they're calm, and then tell them how proud you are of their new behavior. They'll be more likely to repeat the improved behavior in the future.
Set boundaries.
Although it's crucial to stay calm and show compassion, that doesn't mean you should ignore unacceptable behaviors like damaging property or hurting others.    40    This can look like, “I'm not for hitting, but you can hit the pillow or the couch. ”
A. Remain calm.
B. Praise any sign of progress.
C. Consider letting these behaviors go.
D. You may then react in ways you later regret.
E. They're often hungry for adults to notice that they're trying to change!
F. When your children do these things, give them an alternative (可替代的) way to let their anger go.
G. However, it's not possible to help a child get calm when you are also reacting with anger!
36-40. CDBEF
【文章大意】本文是一篇说明文,文章从四个方面介绍了如何帮助孩子控制愤怒的情绪。
36. 【答案】C
【解析】根据本段小标题Learn to let certain things go. 及后文Children should have the right to express their anger可知,要让孩子生气的时候发泄,这是孩子的权利。
37. 【答案】D
【解析】结合后文Instead , remind yourself that behavior communicates how a child feels under the surface. 再根据上文可知,你可能会用将来你后悔的方式回应孩子。
38. 【答案】B
【解析】根据后文. . . wait until they're calm ,and then tell them how proud you are of their new behavior. They'll be more likely to repeat the improved behavior in the future. 可知,本段主要介绍了要表扬孩子的任何进步。
39. 【答案】E
【解析】根据上文Children with anger problems get lectures and consequences all day long. 并结合后文可知,孩子们期待父母看到他们的改变。
40. 【答案】F
【解析】根据上文. . . that doesn't mean you should ignore unacceptable behaviors like damaging properly or hurting others. 可知,此处建议父母给出孩子释放愤怒的其他方式。
 
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